When People Can't Accept Your Choices

We all want to live a fulfilling life. And at times that can mean going a direction, some may think isn’t “right”. But we need to do what is needed for ourselves. It can be scary to feel like you are doing all this alone. With very little guidance or direction. There will be times you will need to be strong against others who will be able to accept the choices you make.

It Doesn’t Always Have To Do With You

Some people will be so against whatever you do, but it has nothing to do with you. They could be just scared or don’t like change. Some people really like things in their world to be just so. That any deviation can throw them.

They Have Their Own Beliefs

Their own belief systems are holding them back. In their mind, it can be any story from you kind of people don’t do those kinds of things, or women can’t do that, or you are too young to be able to execute it. They can also believe that making money should not be easy or that we should not enjoy the work we do.

It’s Their Own Fears

They are working through their own fears. We all have things that scare us about life. Whether by learning from others or what happening in our own life. Just the same as some people are afraid of heights and may never go places because they will not go on a plane.

You Don’t Need Their Permission

Whatever people go through or think is none of your business. There will always come a point where you will have to decide to just do what you want. Especially when you are young you will find out that you do not need permission. Most of what we actually try will not ruin our lives or kill someone. So just try it.

You Don’t Have To Defend Yourself

It is so freeing once you really understand that you don’t have to explain or defend yourself. Yes, we all want to talk about the new things we are excited about. But sometimes people will just not understand or will want to purposefully not want to see it. Not your problem.