Thing Extroverts Need To Stop Doing

This is not about hating on extroverts. We love them because they are people we love; friends, family, and co-workers. But there are some things they do, that they think is perfectly fine to do, which is not. Sometimes its outright rude and they don’t know. This may be just something for yourself to keep an eye out so you can bring it up yourself. Or just send this to the extrovert in your life and I can tell them.

Stop inviting other people before asking us

Especially if we are the ones to make plans. We made the plans with you and only you. I don’t care if we know the other person and we enjoyed the last time we hanged. Stop making changes to things that we are a part of all the time. We have to prepare for times we hang with anyone.

Not everything needs to run on your schedule

Just because we can be laid back about things doesn’t mean that we will just move around to whatever you want. Just because we have time that’s “free” doesn’t mean you can just schedule stuff for us at that time. There is nothing wrong with having plans to do nothing. We want that nothing

Dismissing our thoughts and feelings

Yeah, we can get tired of doing things a lot. We don’t want to have to talk to people all the time. So stop acting like we are downers or being dramatic when we say we are tired or are just done with things. You should care about us.

Trying to “fix” us

There is nothing wrong with us. We do not need to talk more or get out more. Period

Taking everything we do or do not do personally

We are not trying to make your life “harder”. What we do or do not do according to you anyways. There is nothing wrong with just staying home. We really don’t just sit around thinking of ways to be difficult. No one has the time for that.